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title: "Psychology of Manipulation"
description: "Key manipulation strategies to be aware of"
date: 2023-08-09
tags: [psychology]
url: https://nem035.com/thoughts/psychology-of-manipulation
---

# Meeting Locations

- Manipulators choose places where they feel dominant.
- Such locations give them comfort and familiarity while you feel out of place.
- Counter this: pick neutral locations unfamiliar to both.

# Speaking First

- Going first sets your baseline, allowing them to identify weaknesses.
- They'll probe to uncover your thoughts.
- Respond by asking questions. Learn their viewpoint.

# Twisting Facts

- They might lie, exaggerate, or withhold information.
- If someone blames or deceives, recognize it as manipulation.

# "Intellectual Bullying"

- Manipulators flaunt expertise, using data to overshadow you.
- Prepare in advance. Be informed.

# Raised Voices

- Some use loudness as an intimidation tactic.
- Don't succumb to fear. Stay calm. State your case.

# Rushed Decisions

- They pressure you into quick choices.
- If pushed, request more time or decline outright.

# Negative Humor

- Sarcastic jabs can make you feel inferior.
- Stay positive. Ignore their digs.

# Constant Criticism

- Continual put-downs can destabilize you.
- Focus on constructive responses, not their negativity.

# Silent Treatment

- They might ignore your calls or messages to unsettle you.
- Expand your options. Show them they aren't indispensable.

# Feigning Ignorance

- They may act clueless to shirk responsibility.
- Clearly define tasks. Highlight your own responsibilities.