Meeting Locations

• Manipulators choose places where they feel dominant.
• Such locations give them comfort and familiarity while you feel out of place.
• Counter this: pick neutral locations unfamiliar to both.

Speaking First

• Going first sets your baseline, allowing them to identify weaknesses.
• They’ll probe to uncover your thoughts.
• Respond by asking questions. Learn their viewpoint.

Twisting Facts

• They might lie, exaggerate, or withhold information.
• If someone blames or deceives, recognize it as manipulation.

”Intellectual Bullying”

• Manipulators flaunt expertise, using data to overshadow you.
• Prepare in advance. Be informed.

Raised Voices

• Some use loudness as an intimidation tactic.
• Don’t succumb to fear. Stay calm. State your case.

Rushed Decisions

• They pressure you into quick choices.
• If pushed, request more time or decline outright.

Negative Humor

• Sarcastic jabs can make you feel inferior.
• Stay positive. Ignore their digs.

Constant Criticism

• Continual put-downs can destabilize you.
• Focus on constructive responses, not their negativity.

Silent Treatment

• They might ignore your calls or messages to unsettle you.
• Expand your options. Show them they aren’t indispensable.

Feigning Ignorance

• They may act clueless to shirk responsibility.
• Clearly define tasks. Highlight your own responsibilities.